How To Play

How to Play Hate It or Date It

1. Draw
Pick a scenario card and read it out loud

2. Choose
Each player secretly chooses either HATE IT or DATE IT

3. Reveal
Reveal your answers at the same time

4. Debate
If you disagree, explain why

5. Score — Optional
If you both choose the same answer, earn 1 compatibility point

Compatibility Score

9–10: Same Brain
7–8: Pretty Damn Compatible
5–6: It’s Complicated
3–4: We Need to Talk
0–2: How Are You Even Dating?

No-Score Mode

Don’t want to keep score? Skip the points and just use the cards to talk, laugh, debate, and learn more about each other